Parenting

The Couples Therapy

Lets answer these first

๐Ÿ˜ฃI think my husband doesnโ€™t LOVE ME anymore?
๐Ÿ˜ฃ I think we have LOST that SPARK?
๐Ÿ™„I think meri LOVE life gayi tel lene?
๐Ÿ˜‘My WIFE now has no time for US?
๐Ÿ˜ถMy LIFE is only MY child? After baby there is NO TIME for LOVE, rather NO LOVE? (Enters new love villain)
๐Ÿ˜ซAll our conversations these days end in a FIGHT?

Are you searching for COUPLES THERAPY?๐Ÿ‘ซ

๐Ÿ’Do you want to TRANSFORM your life? Do you want to change your YES’s for the above questions to a NO๐Ÿ‘‡

โ˜‘Please SAVE this postโฌ‡ This is all you need โ˜‘
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๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿป8 EFFECTIVE ways to FIND that SPARK! Because you DESERVE it. โœจ
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1. THE TOUCH THERAPY๐Ÿค๐Ÿผ – As a Reiki practitioner, I know touch is the first and strongest healer in this world๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿผ. Physical touch๐Ÿค๐Ÿผ is fundamental for a couple to maintain a healthy relation. Holding hands for a minute, a full fledged Jadoo Ki Jhappi ๐Ÿ‘ซcan lighten up the tension between the partners and heal the past, present and future (check out my post on TOUCH THERAPY for KIDS)

2. LISTEN๐Ÿ‘‚๐Ÿฝ – How did you spend time together before your child or while dating? Talking and listening, right. Being there with your partner, JUST listening๐Ÿ‘‚๐Ÿฝ to him strengthens the bond. Actual LISTENING. No phones around. It shows respect, care, and effortsโค.

3. FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿป – This is the first chapter for achieving success in life and relationship. When you care about your health, time and wellness, your partner starts respecting and loving you the way you love yourself. Love and treat yourself the way you want your love to do. Itโ€™s that SIMPLE! ๐Ÿ‘ฏ

4. FOCUS ON BEING HAPPY, THAN BEING RIGHT๐Ÿ™†๐Ÿผ – Remember in a relationship one of you cannot be happy alone.Its the SAME SIDE. Focus on being HAPPY TOGETHER than being right alone.๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿ’‹โ€๐Ÿ‘จ

5.DISCIPLINE๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ – Make LOVE a Discipline! For every negative interaction like fight or argument or distrust, you NEED 5 POSITIVE ones๐Ÿ‘ผ๐Ÿป to get that SPARK๐Ÿ’. Start spending more fun time , happy time and love time with your hubby!

6. GO ON DATES๐Ÿ‘ซ – Everyoneโ€™s favorite. Yes! Make an EFFORT, get ready and put make up. Don’t shy away from any moment you can find to be alone with your partner! ๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿ’‹โ€๐Ÿ‘จ

7. APPRECIATION๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿผ – means a simple โ€˜I like what you did. Please continue to do itโ€™. The physical closeness might still take time. In a love relationship appreciation is the first step towards getting that SPARK back.๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฝ

8. START AFRESH๐Ÿ’‹ – Arranged or love, after a child you need to write your NEW LOVE Story. So, forget and FORGIVE the old. Take a break, do funny crazy silly adventurous stuff to START your LOVE STORY with ZING.๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’“

 

 

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